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別把生活想得太重,別把自己看得太輕

文/蘇眉細細

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看過這樣一個故事:一對小夫妻開了個小店賣饅頭,就一張紅紙寫了店名貼在門口。一個電蒸鍋,一天也蒸不出幾屜饅頭。鄰居都替他們發愁,這日子可咋過呢?

誰知過了幾個月,來買饅頭的人越來越多,紅紙上便添了幾個字,開始賣花卷、糖三角和發糕。又過了幾個月,又添了煮黏苞米、自制大醬、咸鴨蛋和咸菜……

作者寫到,這家人“就像雨后抖動的一株草”。是的,這株草雖然柔弱,但卻有一種令人感動的生命力。

一對普通的小夫妻,通過一天天踏實的努力,生活越來越好。然而,也有一些人, 感覺自己沒有握住一手好牌,便早早放棄了。

堂弟小強初中畢業就輟學,四處打工,干過快遞員、裝修、汽車修理工等,但每次都干不長。他還總是抱怨,要么說那些工作太累,要么說自己掙得太少。

有一次,偶遇自己的初中同學,看到對方已是研究生畢業,進了一家大企業,堂弟頓感無比失落,又開始埋怨父母當初不勸自己繼續讀書,埋怨長輩沒有本事……如今他已30多歲,打工的錢養活不了自己,還天天留戀網吧,徹底自暴自棄。

有句話說得好:太平年代,很少有人生絕境。社會的每個角落,看得到自暴自棄,也看得到向光而行的生命力。

而生活,永遠不會虧待用心經營它的人。

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簡單的道理,卻不是每個人都懂得。

去朋友公司辦事,遇到一位女孩子在她辦公室哭得梨花帶雨。原來,朋友公司前陣子招聘來兩個新人,現在只能留一個,被淘汰的女孩子來問為什么。

為什么呢?朋友說,這兩個女孩子剛來的時候,感覺資質都差不多,但是半年后卻分出了高下。A女孩得心應手,B女孩得過且過。

朋友說了一件事兒:前陣子公司兩位女員工同時休產假,工作量比較大,經常一個人干兩個人的活,還要加班。A女孩雖然剛開始業務不熟練,但是努力做好每一件事,除了本職工作,還經常幫助其他同事跑腿、訂餐 。B女孩做起事情很仔細,不出差錯,但是效率特別低。

有一次,朋友聽見B女孩和A女孩說:你別那么傻,干得再多,功勞也是別人的。

朋友接著說了第二件事兒:兩個女孩合住在朋友閑置的一個兩室一廳的房子里。有一天晚上,朋友回去拿點東西,發現A女孩的房間干凈整潔,有一股淡淡的薰衣草香味,窗臺上有幾盆小小的多肉,還有一株綠蘿;B女孩的房間,床上堆滿了衣物和化妝品,感覺坐下去都很難。

朋友說,平時,B女孩比A女孩打扮得光鮮靚麗,沒想到私下里卻這么潦草。

一個對生活如此敷衍的人,不會有太大的出息。認真努力生活的人,才會充滿希望且有無限的可能。

時光不會辜負一個平靜努力的人。

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這些年,我們被一波又一波的成功案例所激勵,眼光望向各行各業的名人大咖,羨慕他們的生活,渴望復制他們的成功經歷。

但我們必須清楚地看到,這個世界上,不是努力就一定可以成功。想取得大的成就,基于成長、環境、機遇等諸多因素。

大多數的人,都是默默無聞。

但,這不是我們停下腳步的理由。因為生活沒有我們想的那么輕松,也沒有我們以為的那么沉重。

只要努力過好當下的每一天,不放過每一個細小的機會和努力,那么你吃過的苦,最終都會成為通向未來的路。

來源:蘇眉細細說(ID:sumeixixi01)

英文版:

Do not miss the life too again, do not see oneself too gently

Article / Su Mei is fine

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Had seen a such stories: A pair of young husband and wife opened a small shop to sell a steamed bread, with respect to a piece red paper wrote inn name to be stuck in the doorway. A pot for steaming food of a report, a day also evaporate does not give steamed bread of a few drawer. Neighbour is anxious for them, can this time pass how?

Had told a few months, the person that will buy a steamed bread is increasing, a few words were added on red paper, begin to sell steamed twisted roll, candy trigonometry and steamed sponge cake. Spent a few months again, added again boil sticky bud rice, self-restrained big sauce, salty duck"s egg and pickles ……

The author is written, the careless ” of one individual plant that after this family “ resembles rain, shakes. Yes, although grass of this individual plant is effeminate, but the vitality that however a kind of your person is touched.

A pair of common young husband and wife, pass the effort that is free from anxiety every day, the life is better and better. However, also have a few people, him feeling does not have handholding skill good shop sign, abandoned early.

The cousin is small strong junior high school graduates with respect to discontinue one"s studying, work everywhere, the member that had done express delivery, decorate, vehicle repair labour, but work not to grow every time. He always still complains, or says those jobs are too tired, or says he is earned too little.

Once, him come across classmate of junior high school, seeing the other side already was graduate student graduation, took a big company, the cousin feels clinking suddenly lose, begin to blame parents not to persuade his to continue to read at the outset again, blame elder to do not have skill …… nowadays he already many years old 30, working money cannot feed him, still be reluctant to leave an Internet bar every day, thoroughly abandonment.

A word says well: Time of peace and tranquility, very few somebody gives birth to hopeless situation. Every corner of the society, look get abandonment, also see the vitality that get Xiang Guang and goes.

And the life, won"t have a deficit forever the person that needs the intention to manage it.

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Simple truth, not be everybody is known however.

Go to friend company handling affairs, encounter a girl to cry pear is beautifully to bring rain in her office. Original, invite applications for a job of the streak before friend company comes two new personality, can leave only now, the girl that is washed out will ask why.

Why? The friend says, when these two girls just came, feel aptitude is about the same, but divide however after half an year gave relative superiority or inferiority. A girl handy, b girl drift along.

The friend said a thing: Before two female staff of streak company rest at the same time maternity leave, workload is bigger, often a person works, work overtime even. Although A girl just began business inexperience, but had done each thing hard, besides own job, often still help other staff do legwork, order meal. B girl makes a business very careful, do not give error, but efficiency is particularly low.

Once, the friend hears B girl and A girl say: You are fastened so foolish, work again more, contribution also is others.

The friend said the 2nd thing then: Two girls chummage is in the friend"s unused two rooms in the house of one hall. One day in the evening, the friend goes back the thing that take a place, the room that discovers A girl is clean and neat, have a light lavender sweet smell, a few is there on windowsill the tub is little meaty, still have one plant green trailing plants; The room of B girl, the stack on the bed clothings and cosmetic, it is very difficult that the feeling sits.

The friend says, at ordinary times, b girl dresses up brightly than A girl beautiful beautiful, did not think of furtive in so illegible however.

A so perfunctory to the life person, won"t have too great promise. The person that lives hard seriously, just can be full of a hope and have infinite possibility.

Days won"t the person that disappoint tries hard calmly.

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These year, we by a drive of another successful case place, eye looks at the Ga of renown National People"s Congress to all trades and professions, envy their life, longing is duplicate their successful experience.

But we must see clearly, on this world, either can succeed certainly hard. Want to gain great success, be based on grow, a lot of element such as environment, good luck.

Most person, it is unknown to public.

But, this is not the ground that we stop offal pace. What think without us because of the life is so relaxed, what also think without us is so heavy.

Want to had tried hard each days of good instantly only, do not let off each petty opportunity and effort, so the pain that you had taken, final metropolis makes the way that leads to future.

Origin: Su Mei fine dilatancy (ID: Sumeixixi01)

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