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真正的努力,從來都不動聲色

文/李三清

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大四上學期備戰考研時,在圖書館自習室我認識了茉莉,一個笑起來有兩個梨渦的女孩。

得知我也在準備考研,茉莉很熱情,要了我的聯系方式,并約定一起晨讀,背英語單詞。我欣然接受。

第二天,茉莉穿著一件白色蕾絲長裙,踩著高跟鞋,長發披肩,姍姍來遲。我提醒她趕緊背書,她卻拿出課本,讓我幫她先拍幾張照。站在樹下,坐在長椅上,正面、側身、背影……各種角度,各種姿態,一頓狂拍。

我想,她可能是好不容易找到個伴給她拍照,等幾天新鮮勁兒過了就會安心復習。誰知,她每天晨讀都要拍照,穿各種風格的衣服,擺各式各樣的姿勢,找各種不同的角度。

原來,她每天晨讀、拍照就是為了在朋友圈打卡。她精心選圖、修圖,并絞盡腦汁配上文藝范兒的文字:“世界上任何書籍都不能帶給你好運,但是它們能讓你悄悄成為你自己。”“總有一天,你會感謝現在拼命努力的自己”……

我覺得,有這個拍照、選圖、修圖的時間,還不如多讀幾頁書、多背幾個單詞。全身心地沉浸在學習中,是一件非常投入、非常享受的事情,哪還有心思忙著拍照、發朋友圈,等著收獲一連串的贊和評論呢?

果然,不到一個月,茉莉就以天氣漸漸變冷容易感冒為由,結束了晨讀的日子。

天下難事,必作于易;天下大事,必作于細。努力,是克服自己的畏難情緒和惰性,朝著既定目標一點點、一天天、一步步靠近。

你做三四月的事,在八九月自有答案。真正的努力,從來不需要世人皆知。

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不久前,朋友蘭蘭剛考上博士。

蘭蘭研究生畢業,在老家的小城市工作,老公在省會城市。她一直想和老公結束兩地分居的日子。但是,她的專業不是很好就業,在人才濟濟的省會城市也沒多大優勢,于是她想考個博士,以后去高校工作。

蘭蘭考博成功給我打電話時,我很震驚。因為她平常工作很忙,事情特別多,更關鍵的是她剛生完孩子。

原來,蘭蘭兩年前就計劃考博了。她制定了嚴格的學習計劃,工作日每天保證學習兩小時,周末和節假日每天至少保證學習四小時,學習計劃精確到每半小時。她復習的時候,關機、斷網,只用手表看時間。懷孕期間,在身體允許的情況下,學習也沒有間斷。

我問她怎么不告訴我們考博的事情。她說,考博是她慎重考慮后做出的決定。她不需要昭告天下,只需朝著這個目標日復一日地努力。太多的關注和問候,反而容易給她帶來一些不必要的心理壓力。

既然選擇了遠方,便只顧風雨兼程。真正的努力,從來都不動聲色。

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很多時候,我們喜歡嚷著要改變,要努力。

想學瑜伽,咬咬牙報了培訓班,買了瑜伽服,發朋友圈打卡,請大家監督……最后卻堅持不下來,不了了之;

想學英語,買了一大堆書,幾個月過去了卻還是停留在前三頁;

想考研,約上小伙伴去自習室,最后卻忙著自拍、看小說、聊微信,甚至補覺……

如果我們能把嚷嚷的勁頭落實到每一天的實際行動中,也許就能減少很多因碌碌無為、虛度光陰而留下的悔恨了。

成功者之所以成功,是因為他們不浮躁、不喧鬧,長年累月,腳踏實地、不動聲色地努力。

真正的努力,是“不積跬步,無以至千里;不積小流,無以成江海”的積累;是“貴有恒,何必三更眠五更起;最無益,只怕一日曝十日寒”的自律;是“千淘萬漉雖辛苦,吹盡黃沙始到金”的執著。

來源:李三清的紫竹林(ID:lisanqing2015)

英文版:

Genuine effort, maintain his composure

Article / Li Sanqing

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Big 4 last term prepare for war one"s deceased father when grinding, in library self-study room I knew jasmine, one laughs to have the girl of two pear eddy.

Be informed me to also grind in preparative take an examination ofing, jasmine is very enthusiastic, wanted my connection way, agree morning is read one case, carry English word on the back. My jump at.

The following day, jasmine is wearing silk of bud of a white to grow skirt, stepping on high-heeled shoes, grow hair amice, be late. I remind her to endorse rapidly, she takes out textbook however, let me help her pat a few pieces to illuminate first. Stand below the tree, sit on couch, all sorts of angle of …… of the front, sideways, back, all sorts of attitude, pat madly suddenly.

I think, she may be good find a companion not easily to take a picture to her, wait for new interest a few days passed to be able to set his mind at to review. Who knows, she everyday morning is read should take a picture, wear the dress of all sorts of styles, place sundry pose, seek all sorts of different point of view.

Original, she everyday morning is read, take a picture even if get stuck to be hit in friend circle. She chooses graph, long plan meticulously, and cudgel one"s brains for matchs above paragraphs art model character: Any books on “ world cannot bring you lucky, but they can let you become yourself stealthily. ”“ sooner or later, you can thank him ”…… that tries hard desperately now

I feel, this takes a picture, the time that chooses graph, long plan, still read book of a few pages, much back as how a few words. Systemic a person"s mind is enmeshed in study, it is an extraordinary investment, special enjoyment business, which think of busy move purposely still to take a picture, hair friend circle, waiting to harvest a chain of assist and comment?

As expected, be less than a month, jasmine becomes cold gradually with weather for easy cold, ended the day that morning reads.

The world tickler, make Yu Yi surely; The world important matter, make surely at fine. Hard, it is the fear of difficulty that overcomes oneself and laziness, forward fixed target little, one every day, stand by step by step.

You do thing of 34 months, there is the result oneself in 89 months. Genuine effort, do not need common people to all know.

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Not long ago, friend Lan Langang is taken an examination of on doctor.

Lan Lan"s graduate student graduates, work in the small town of native place, husband is in provincial capital city. She wants to end the day that two ground live apart with husband all the time. But, her major is not very good obtain employment, also do not have in the provincial capital city of talent many how old advantage, then she wants to take an examination of a doctor, the college goes working after.

When Lanlankaobo calls successfully to me, I very astonish. Because she is common the job is very busy, the business is particularly much, more crucial is she just gave birth to the child.

Original, lan Lan checks gain with respect to the plan two years ago. She made strict study plan, weekday assures to learn two hours everyday, assure to learn 4 hours at least everyday with holiday on the weekend, study plans to arrive accurately half hours every. When she is reviewed, close machine, stop a network, see time with watch only. During be pregnant, below the condition that allows in the body, study also is done not have discontinuous.

I ask how she doesn"t tell us to study the issue of rich. She says, checking gain is the decision that after she considers cautiously, makes. She does not need clear to tell the world, need only forward ground of this target day after day tries hard. Too much attention and greeting, bring a few needless psychology pressure easily instead to her.

Since chose distant place, consider harships travel at double speed only. Genuine effort, maintain his composure.

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A lot of moment, we like to shouting to want a change, want hard.

Want to learn gem gal, bit gnash one"s teeth to declare groom class, bought gem gal to take, hair friend circle plays card, ask everybody to supervise …… to hold to no less than coming however finally, end up with nothing definite;

Want to learn English, bought one pile book, finish of past of a few months still stays advanced 3 pages;

Want to take an examination of grind, go up about young associate goes studying by oneself in scheduled time room, busy however finally move is patted oneself, see novel, Liao Weixin, fill even become aware ……

If we can implement the spirit of shout in real operation of each days, perhaps can reduce a lot of compunction that stay because of incompetent, loaf.

The person that succeed succeeds, because they are not not blundering, Bacchic,be, year in year out, hardheaded, maintain one"s composure the ground tries hard.

Genuine effort, it is “ does not accumulate Kui pace, without down to a thousand li; Do not accumulate small stream, without with Cheng Jianghai ” accumulate; It is “ expensive preserving, why 3 more Mian the five watches of the night rises; The most profitless, be afraid that one day exposes to the sun 10 days only the self-discipline of cold ” ; It is “ 1000 although work hard,clean out 10 thousand seep through, blow Huang Sha only then the persistence to golden ” .

Origin: Li Sanqing"s black bamboo forest (ID: Lisanqing2015)

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